The power of words!

“Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.”

Yehuda Berg

Words.  The one tool every single person possesses.  They can be used to create or destroy.  Words carry energy.  They can determine our own destiny and the fate of the relationships around us. 

In a very real sense, life and death are in the power of the tongue, in the power of an outlook towards our world & with that one can use the words to get the life they want. Lately, I have been examining my relationships; I have noticed how I impact those relationships, negatively and positively, just by my word choice and tone or “the best” by being silent or to rephrase by just collecting the thoughts to contemplate. 

Being nearly in many ups & downs, what became my first lesson is that what was said was not always what was meant. & trust me by this modus operandi, I’ve made my life a lot easier. Listen & forget the hurtful chapters! 

The power of words extends well beyond simple expression. The words we choose have the capacity to completely direct and change the course of our lives. The words we use day in and day out — our habitual vocabulary — whether we say them aloud or in our mind, are what decide our dreams, successes and our ability to bounce back after setbacks.

Many of us fall into the trap of thinking that we don’t have any control over. The way we feel, and the picks of librettos have been decided by our circumstances.

If someone surprises us with a thoughtful gift, we’re happy. If someone cuts us off we’re angry.

Fortunately, it’s not that simple. We being human take people who are close to us for granted. We utter whatever comes in our mind (anger leads in here or perhaps becomes the common denominator).

We often ends up hurting the most to those who care for us the most & surprisingly we just excels the art of refraining ourselves showing transgression in front of our colleagues or may be in front of relatives.

The way we feel in any given situation is actually a choice. And, it’s a choice that’s dictated by the words we use to describe our experiences or the observations.

In the end, all I want to say is I have hated words and I have loved them, and I hope I have made them right.

Dia